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How to invest your life for well being?

“There is something happening in nature between 3:30 AM to 3:40 AM. So it’s a very significant part of time.” And how do people start on this path? Because a lot of this makes sense to people but in the world they live in they don’t know where to start… If i teach you a way where you can manage your chemistry the way you want, but we need 32 hours of focus time. Do you think your life is valuable enough for that much investment? Every human being wants his life enhanced, if you don’t show them proper ways to enhance, they will find shortcuts. A man who goes to a bar and a man who goes to the church, or temple or whatever, they are seeking the same thing, they are trying to enhance their life! If you don’t show them the proper way, they will take whatever ways are available on the streat. That’s all. You want to go forward but it sets you backwards. Your intelligence has turned against you. If your intelligence were working for you, would you create blissfulness or misery? 80–85% of the population today is on alcohol or some kind of drugs. We have come to a place, where to grow our food we need chemicals, to be healthfull we need chemicals. Today 70% of the population is on prescription medication of some sort, to be peaceful we need chemicals, to be joyful we need chemicals, to be ecstatic, of course, we have ecstasy. So we are going towards chemicals in a huge way! The water that you drink is full of chemicals, the air you breathe is like that and the food you eat is like that. So if 90% of humanity goes into chemical consumption, consciously or unconsciously, they consume a lot of it. The next generation we produce will be of a lesser quality than who we are! That’s a crime against humanity. So right now chemical is a net; it’s not another trapeze. It’s a net that you can fall into and people experience their own little heaven, but it ruins you in so many ways. The important thing about life, whether it’s a grasshopper out there or you, both of us are striving to be the fullest possible life that we can be. A grasshopper is trying to be a fulfilled grasshopper; A human being is trying to be a fulfilled human being. So similarly for a human being, if you take away any of his faculties, in any way, even temporarily, have you enhanced his life? So intoxication is just that: it is taking away your faculties for a period of time, but if you continuously do it, it will take it away from your life! So you are taking away or you are subjugating your faculties for a little bit of pleasure, or maybe a lot of pleasure, however you wish to describe it. But the important thing is you are taking backward steps with life because life can only be enhanced by sharpening and increasing our faculties; not by decreasing our faculties! This means we are taking a backward step. Though there may be pleasure attached to it, because you need to understand that the greatest chemical factory, the most sophisticated chemical factory is right here. If you are a great manager, you will produce what you want from this, if you are a lousy manager, you do wrong things, you get anxiety, you get something else, you get rubbish going on within you because you are misusing your chemical factory, you don’t know how to manage your chemical factory. Why has your intelligence turned against you? There is no stable base, so the entire yogic system is about this: that you create a stable base so that your intelligence works for you. If your intelligence turns against you, no power in the universe is going to save you. You are a done thing. We talk in the books about thoughts, we are obsessed with thoughts in this world and I’m thinking this and I’m thinking that…well when we say I’m thinking this, another way of saying this is I’m making of this, I’m making of that. You can make up whatever you want, as long as you enjoy it! But that can be dangerous. Always trying to think of the solution; Always trying to be your thoughts…if you become what you make up, it’s unfortunate. Your thoughts belong to you, or you belong to the thoughts, you must make up your mind! The whole human experience comes from within. Many books tell you how to milk happiness from something else or somebody else, but all human experience is generated from within! What comes from around you may not be the way you want it, but what comes from within you must be the way you want it. If whatever happens within you the way you want it, will you be blessed out or miserable? Many people want to learn about how to control their own mind. Do you want your mind controlled or liberated? Of Course liberated! But how to control it because they think that intelligence is a serious problem and has been in their lives. So the solution is if you remove a part of your brain you will be fine. You are essentially complaining about ”I wish I had the brain of another one! This human brain I’m not able to handle!” That’s a fact. Charles Darwin said that you evolved out of a monkey. You are a monkey, then you become a man. The DNA difference between a chimpanzee and you is only 1.23%! So in this sense, physiologically, you are only 1.23% away from a chimpanzee. It’s just a shade of difference. But in terms of intelligence and awareness you are worlds apart from a chimpanzee. So your problem is just this: you have an intelligence for which you don’t have a stable enough platform! If i

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how to remove toxic people

How to remove toxic people from your life?

How to remove toxic people from your life?? Not every relationship lasts forever, most are lessons that help us to grow and that’s okay! Removing unwanted and toxic people from life is very important to be happy and live a healthy lifestyle. These people don’t bring anything positive and inspiring in our life. Keeping toxic people in your life weighs you down from reaching yourself. Fox foster It’s hard to remove toxic people from your life,  but your life depends on it. You are sabotaging your happiness for these unwanted people in your life. Everyone says self-love is very important, so you need to open your eyes and identify who these individuals are as it’s important for your well-being and happiness. These people make you feel bad about yourself, make you feel unwanted, and manipulate your life. Now the question arises do you deserve to be treated like this? You cannot change them what you can do is cut off these toxic people from your lives. You should not allow others to treat you like this. Removing someone toxic from your life is not at all easy. There’s an old myth frog that will pull down other frogs trying to escape a pot of boiling water. In real life, there is always a person who will judge, manipulate, threaten and resist the possibility of self-improvement. Think of it when a snake bites you the toxic poison spreads through your body and gets more toxic causing death. This concept is also applied in our life and the sad part is we don’t realize it’s happening to us. The next question that arises is how to cut them off from our life? Firstly don’t expect them to change.  You may yearn to be the one who makes them a better person but it’s a hopeless thought. However, the idea of changing themselves and becoming a better person might not appeal to them. They are already down in their own pits of negativity and arguments over these won’t help them get out. Toxic people are not motivated by good things. They have learned to live their lives based on their narcissistic behavior and won’t look for any good other than fulfilling their own selfish needs. In the process, they might even take you down with them so be careful regarding that. Always and always put yourself first.  They will show they care for you and will keep coming back however much you push them away but you need to stand by your decision. Falling for their fake behavior and care towards you will lead to self-harm and in severe cases might even cause a mental breakdown. You might even start doubting yourself and develop a negative attitude just like them. Cut off every mode of communication with them. It’s very important to stop every possible communication with them if they are hurting you and your feelings. A formal hi hello may be acceptable in some cases but don’t let them get any closer to you in any way. They may even try incessantly to try and make back contact because they realize your worth, but you have to remain adamant about your decision. Surround yourself with healthy relationships. Do things that make you happy, pick up any new hobby, spend more time with yourself get to know yourself very well. Start loving yourself more than you ever did. Be with your true friends. Spend time with your family. Involve yourself in your work. Everyone in this world may leave you at some point of time or other, but your work won’t ever leave you.  Don’t explain yourselves. You don’t need to explain your views to toxic people by invoking fights or arguments. Remember, this is the negative attitude that leads to self-doubt and the worsening of self-opinion. Motivate yourself. “Always remember one thing you deserve to be happy!!” Hire

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Reinvent Yourself

How to Reinvent Yourself For Better Life?

‘Self-Reinvention’ The term itself is highly promising. The first question that arises in our minds is that what is the need to reinvent yourself/ ourselves? In order to answer this, just pause into the life you are leading right now, and ask yourself, Are you Happy with whatever you have in your life? Do you see yourself merely as a part of the crowd, leading the same old life as a millions of other people? Do you see yourself achieving your goal with the current attitude you have?” – all these questions will definitely answer your need to reinvent yourself. Once we have identified our need, we are good to go ahead with the process itself. Start by making a list of your goals. Your dreams, your aspirations, your purpose of life- pen down everything in the list. It can be anything- starting from being a fashion designer, to owning a restaurant in foreign country. DON’T LET YOUR DREAMS FADE OUT. APJ Abdul Kalam once said- “A person without dreams is a body without soul.”  Sort out your priorities next. One of the most important steps is sorting out priorities. People often fall into their own self-made cages just because the prioritized their dreams in an inefficient manner. For example, let’s say you are a school student, you are going to appear for your secondary examinations. You aspire of being a world class gamer. You cannot just leave your studies and focus all your time in gaming. Prioritize a minimal time for your studies and focus the rest on your gaming. Third step is to knowing and accepting your cons. It is only human to have flaws about yourself. Self-assessment plays a major part in reinventing yourself, to find a better person within you. Realizing your drawbacks and working on improving them is always a good sign. Focus on your goals and dreams and improving on your drawbacks in achieving them will help you move towards your goal. In the journey of achieving our dream, we often forget an important factor that is proper diet and rest. More often than not, it is important that we take a step back and shut down our body for a few hours so that we  are able to work with our full efficiency again. People often forget the role of nutritious food and rest which results in frustration, insomnia, and inefficient work. In several cases, we might even just miss our goal in absence of it. Start living a healthy lifestyle with proper 6 to 7 hours of rest. However sometimes when you enjoy doing your work, you might just want to put it down to 3 to 4 hours even. In a journey towards success, failures are bound to come. There is no value of success if the path towards it doesn’t have failures. One must learn to overcome their failures in this journey. The best way of dealing with failures is keeping a positive attitude towards them. Learning from past mistakes, and improvise on them. Many world leaders and CEOs of multinational companies had once gone bankrupt. However, what kept them on track was their positive attitude and determination to succeed. The  above points will make sure that you keep moving ahead towards your goal. However, the most important characteristic if you want to reinvent yourself is SELF-CONFIDENCE. Believe in yourself and your goal. Never for a moment doubt yourself. Keep loving yourself. In the mad rush of running after your dream, don’t forget to take a step back sometimes and have some time for yourself. Following all the above steps, you will be reincarnating yourself into the best version of you that ever existed. You will redefine yourself, Reinvent Yourself and reach limits that you never knew existed.  You will re-invent yourself. SUMMARY  Find out your need to reinvent yourself. Make a list of your goals and dreams. Dream Big! Sort out your priorities and deal with them one at a time keeping in mind both the short term as well as long term goals. Keep re-assessing yourself and work on your drawbacks. Focus on your goal and keep yourself away from useless distractions. Lead a healthy lifestyle with proper diet and rest. Have a positive attitude. Learn to deal with failures. Always believe in yourself. confidence and self-love are x-factors towards your goal that set you apart from others. Thanks for Reading Hire

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